Learning to live after loss blog

  • What God Says

    When God Says No

    I have no doubt about what God is able to do. I waiver about what He is willing to do. Because, what if I ask and the answer is no? I am afraid to ask for big things because it’s crushing to be told no.

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  • Alone and forsaken, feeling far from God

    Have You Ever Felt Forsaken? 

    Have you ever felt completely alone in your misery, that God is very far from you, leaving you to wallow in a pit of despair, left to wonder how long will this last? My God, why have you forsaken me? 

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  • The gift of presence, holding hands

    The Gift of Presence 

    Seeing people in pain is uncomfortable for everyone. The bravest souls are willing to endure personal discomfort so they may provide some measure of relief. One of the best things friends and family did for me when I was hurting was to give me the Gift of their Presence.  

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  • Sacrifice of the cross

    As I Consider the Sacrifice 

    In anticipation of celebrating Resurrection Sunday, I am reflecting on the final week of Jesus and considering the great cost of His Sacrifice. Jesus knew He was walking the road to Jerusalem for the last time and He did so with purpose.

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  • God is waiting on the other side of the door if you don’t give up too soon

    Why Do I Give Up Too Soon? 

    I am tempted to give up too soon when the outcome is different from what I desired. I’m talking about real hurts that I cannot imagine could be a part of God’s plan.

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  • Holding a flower as a picture of hope

    My Basis for Hope 

    When we followed the ambulance carrying Nicholas to the Emergency Room, we had hope that he would be revived. Even though it did not look promising, we prayed for a miracle.  We were hanging on, asking God to work through the ER staff and save our child. What was the…

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